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BillDrums
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  • Bordentown, NJ
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BillDrums replied to Telynn's discussion How are you? in the group Widowed in 2019
"Cyndi died from a heart attack in December.  5 1/2 months later I want to say I am doing OK but I don't really believe that. I no longer feel every day like I'm going to lose my mind and I don't spend my days sobbing anymore. I…"
May 21
BillDrums replied to sis's discussion Identity Crisis? in the group Widowed in 2018
"I understand how you feel. Cyndi died December 5th. There are things of Cyndi’s that I was in the process of dealing with when it just became too much pain and I just stopped. I left everything wherever it lay (like all over the dining room…"
Apr 12
BillDrums replied to Jill's discussion How old were you when your spouse died? How does your age affect your self-concept now that you're on your own?
"I lost my wife 2 months ago. I'm 58. From now on I'm just a single widower. I never want to be in another romantic relationship. I just want to be there for my (grown) children and my grandson."
Feb 17
BillDrums commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"I lost my Cyndi to a heart attack at work on 12/5/18. She left for work in the morning (she was a school teacher) and I never got to speak with her again. I spent the day in the hospital watching her die. I read the comments on this site and I find…"
Feb 17
BillDrums replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Oh, Donna I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my Cyndi to a heart attack on December 5 2018. There is no pain I have ever felt that even comes close to this. I have heard that in time it softens. I pray that that is true, because if I go on like…"
Feb 16
BillDrums replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"My condolences, Lisa.  Every day I have flashbacks to watching my wife die in the hospital after her heart attack in December Some days are better than others but there's no such thing as a "good" day right now. I find that it…"
Feb 16
BillDrums replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Thank you, Nieta for the condolences. The same to you. It's really tough, I'm having some bad days right now but I will persevere for Cyndi's sake. She would want me to. But damn this is hell right now. "
Feb 15
BillDrums replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hello everyone, I lost my wife Cyndi in December 5, 2018. I saw her off to work that morning, and never got to speak with her again. She suffered a heart attack that morning at work and died that evening in the hospital. She was unresponsive the…"
Feb 14
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Jan 24
eliana left a comment for BillDrums
"Welcome to Widville, WidowerBill. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here. Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that…"
Jan 24

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At 10:43am on January 24, 2019, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, WidowerBill. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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