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Ann - Michigan
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  • Westland, MI
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Posted on October 12, 2011 at 5:41pm 3 Comments

Well, I am back from my vacation. I had a great time.  I had some discussions with my brother in law and sister in law and i feel so much better about it..  I also went on a date when I got home.  had a nice time but I think i screwed it up.  I let too much of my emotions get in the way of starting a friendship with this guy..  I over think things and I have to remember to keep my other life out of the discussion on a first date.  I don't know if this guy will call me back or not he did not…



Posted on September 24, 2011 at 9:52pm 4 Comments

Well today Sunday Sept 25th would have been my 30th wedding anniversary.  So far tonight i seem to be doing fine.  I am trying not to think about it..  Lately i have been doing good.  I really don't think about Tony everyday anymore.  I guess I am going on with my life now.  I am leaving for vacation on monday Sept 26th and going to my brother in laws (tonys brother) house.  I feel close to tony when I am there and i get my head together.  I am going monday because i did not want to subject…


Bored and babbling.

Posted on September 9, 2011 at 9:46am 0 Comments

Well I sit here today bored.  of course i am bored everyday.  I have no where to go, no job but looking,  no one to see and no friends to go do things with.  I hate not having friends to go out and do things with.  Sure I have 20 million children but gave birth to 2 of them.  But it is not the same never has and never will..  I want adult  I know i am just babbling her but if i wrote down everything that was bothering me it would take 20 pages or more..  I would like to have a man… Continue

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Posted on September 6, 2011 at 8:26pm 1 Comment

I lost my husband in 2008, it has been 3 1/2 years now and i still have no idea what to do..  I don't even know who I am or what I want out of my life.  My kids are adults but sometimes they act like they are 12, especially my son.  He seems to think he has to take over my life because his dad is gone.  I am so tired of arguing.  i want him to leave me alone and let me have a life.  I am happy some days and other days i cant stop crying.  I know my husband is not going to come through the…


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At 3:59pm on October 2, 2011, CrazyWidow said…
Welcome to Widowed in 2008, jeez, doesn't that sound awful?  Either way, thanks for finding us!
At 6:07am on September 6, 2011, RobertBear (Bob) said…

Hi Ann,

Thanks for the friends request.  I'm new here too.  I have found the people here to be wonderful.  I hope you do too,


At 2:36pm on August 31, 2011, Lisa (lost) Lamb said…
  Welcome Ann, So sorry for your loss...but so glad you found us. I hope you will find some of the same comfort and understanding here that I have. 
At 5:30pm on August 28, 2011, bigfatchunkylover57 said…

Hi, Ann,


I'm from Michigan, too.  Sorry you have to join us here, but welcome anyway.  Hope you find the community helpful, I know I do.




At 11:34am on August 25, 2011, Dianne in Nevada said…

Pleased you found us, athomas. Take a look around and join our conversations - in the Groups, Forums and Chat Room.  You'll find wonderful support here.

I'm originally from Adrian, MI - just down the road a bit from you.


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