Just thought I'd post something positive here for those who are newly widowed because I know I searched desperately for some sign of happiness here.
A year and a half after John's death I'm not focused so much on the pain leading up to my beloved John's death and the enormous pain that followed his death because there's other stuff in my life to focus on.
Had a very nast ytrip injury one month ago in a caravan park a couple of days after I'd gone to a country town to teach.…Continue
Thought I'd drop by and share my birthday anniversary feelings today. I have found love again with David, born on Feb 4, like my late husband John.
Just had a look at photos and videos from John's 65th birthday party on Feb 4 last year while David is out. He looks so sweet, happy and frail. So many memories....I needed to look at those photos.
Meanwhile I'm taking David to the movies this afternoon - took him to dinner and a band Saturday night as part of the birthday…Continue
I have a smile on my face.
And it hasn't gone away for a couple of days.
On Saturday night I took the plunge into intimacy with a lovely man who had become a friend and I'm so glad I did:)
I believe he was sent into my life by John.
He has the same birthday - February 4 - which spooked me when I met him (though he is 62 - same age as me and 3 years younger than John).
He's living on a yacht which was one of John's dreams as an adventurous person before he became…