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At 8:21pm on November 14, 2013, JPSwifeCathy said…
Oh and Roll Tide from Gadsden!
At 8:20pm on November 14, 2013, JPSwifeCathy said…
Hi mike
I'm SO very sorry for your loss:(. --I 'lost' John 18 monthes ago,June 25,2012 from ALS/Lou Gehrig's Disease & yes it was HORRIBLE:( we had been married 28 yrs!! The feelings you're having are understandable--I've been there too--it's good knowing there are many people that understand but the best thing is knowing I've got God there helping me! Cathy
At 3:27pm on October 28, 2013, LifesAJourney said…


Welcome to Widowed Village.  I am very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You will find caring support and friendship here.

Here is the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here! You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you will find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

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Posted on November 8, 2013 at 11:30am 4 Comments

Kind of feeling like a busted clock spring. Wound so tight it moans and stretches until it can stand no more then releases, in an instant, into an unwound pile of confusion. This is me. I am consumed in guilt, confusion and loneliness.

Why couldn’t I have done more to prevent her death? What could I have done? I don’t know, but I feel like there was something I overlooked. Something I missed. Something I should have been able to do. After all I am a man and so, by nature, a problem…


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