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cantorsue replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion Does new love "fix" anything?
"I agree with you that love is ultimately the best, but sex without love gets old after a while. I much prefer a pillow and vibrator to the gorgeous triathlete who is willing to come over any time I want, because I just don't like having…"
cantorsue replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion Does new love "fix" anything?
"Aw. This photo is precious. Don't get me wrong, Macduff - I didn't think I was going for a one-night stand. I innocently thought that despite being on vacation, the man would want to continue and develop a relationship. …"
cantorsue replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion Does new love "fix" anything?
"I love your response, Marly! You could be describing me to a T - I'm even the same age as you, although Mike died April 7, 2009. When people who haven't seen me for while express surprise that I've been dating, I respond…"
cantorsue replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion Does new love "fix" anything?
"This response is very honest, so please don't read further if you are shy with frankness! My husband was my 5th, and we were married for 31 years. I too was terrified the first time I had sex after Mike died (I was 53), but I picked…"
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for cantorsue
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Cantorsue,
May your special day be filled with love.
Dianne"
cantorsue replied to Jill's discussion How old were you when your spouse died? How does your age affect your self-concept now that you're on your own?
"I am so touched by reading all these stories. I read every post, and my heart goes out to everyone. Such courage shines through with the pain. I became a widow at 53, in April 2009 after 34 years of being together, 31 of them…"
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cantorsue replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion When did you remove your wedding rings?
"Well, yeh, OMG to that egg-freezing suggestion! People do mean well, but often they just don't 'get it' and then it is up to us to either gently teach them or walk away. It is so fresh for you that you might be…"
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- At 12:54am on August 23, 2011,
Dianne in Nevada said… 
Cantorsue,
May your special day be filled with love.
Dianne
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