"I agree with you that love is ultimately the best, but sex without love gets old after a while. I much prefer a pillow and vibrator to the gorgeous triathlete who is willing to come over any time I want, because I just don't like having…"
"Aw. This photo is precious. Don't get me wrong, Macduff - I didn't think I was going for a one-night stand. I innocently thought that despite being on vacation, the man would want to continue and develop a relationship. …"
"I love your response, Marly! You could be describing me to a T - I'm even the same age as you, although Mike died April 7, 2009. When people who haven't seen me for while express surprise that I've been dating, I respond…"
"This response is very honest, so please don't read further if you are shy with frankness! My husband was my 5th, and we were married for 31 years. I too was terrified the first time I had sex after Mike died (I was 53), but I picked…"
"I am so touched by reading all these stories. I read every post, and my heart goes out to everyone. Such courage shines through with the pain. I became a widow at 53, in April 2009 after 34 years of being together, 31 of them…"
"Well, yeh, OMG to that egg-freezing suggestion! People do mean well, but often they just don't 'get it' and then it is up to us to either gently teach them or walk away. It is so fresh for you that you might be…"