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ceilya
  • Female
  • Palm Desert, CA
  • United States
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ceilya commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Barzan you are so right pets are a blessing.  I rescued a dog a few months after Jim passed and as the saying goes "I didn't rescue her she rescued me" and it is so true.   She is such a great companion.  Always there…"
Monday
ceilya commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"I love Netflix.   There are nights I cannot sleep and nothing is on TV and I turn on Netflix.  Sometimes I watch the same movie or series and still hear or see something different.   Lots of choices.   "
Oct 10
ceilya commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Don I know less than most people about the internet but I do know if anyone asks for you to change anything STAY AWAY.   Hope the rest of your evening goes well.  Ceilya"
Sep 27
ceilya commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Don you are right you can't beat it.  Someone told me awhile ago that it doesn't get better it just gets more tolerable.  Some days I find that to be true and others it is like yesterday.   Most of the time when my life is…"
Sep 26
ceilya commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"I love that I can come to this site whenever I need to be with people who connect with me in the one area of my life not everyone (thank goodness) does and that is in my grief.   Grief doesn't discriminate on age, race, religion or gender.…"
Sep 24
ceilya commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Frank you are so right.  Grief is just that grief.   Grief has no age or no time frame.  I do hope Beloved Peach you continue to come to whichever site you feel most comfortable sharing with.  Just like Frank I was born in NY in…"
Sep 21
ceilya commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Hi BelovedPeach, I know how you feel with the age of the groups.  I think it is probably because sometimes people in a certain generation can relate to different things like songs, travels, kids, grandkids, movies, etc etc etc.  But since…"
Sep 18
ceilya commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Hi Frank, yes it is the never-ending saga of my roof but hopefully by tomorrow it will be done except for the inside repairs.  I can't take anymore disruption so I will ask that they come back another time to start fixing what was damaged…"
Sep 17
ceilya commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2010
"Hi Everyone, I see the last comment on here was a while ago which may be good.  It was also made on my Jim's birthdate by timetofly.  How ironic.  I have this fear that I will check in here and it will be gone.  I don't…"
Sep 14
ceilya commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"It has been a while since I have been on here but always feeling a sense of comfort to know this site exists.  When they changed the name I panicked thinking where do I go now when I  need to know there are people who understand how I am…"
Sep 14

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At 4:49pm on January 17, 2012, rodsgurl09 said…

Ceilya, thank you for the friend request. Yes, sometimes I feel it's difficult to care about anything.....So many things just seem so trivial to me now. I'm back to full throttle at the office again....but I will never again bring work home with me, EVER. Too precious little time with my son as it is. I guess that's been the biggest lesson for me, how incredibly short life really is and what's REALLY important. Also, I don't know about you, but I've lost interest in all my old hobbies. I'm hoping someday I'll get that back. Anyway, sorry for rambling, I really just wanted to say hello, and thank you, and wish you a peaceful evening.

At 8:16pm on January 16, 2012, Lisa ( Marielee) said…

Welcome Ceilya. So sorry you are here but glad you found us. Please know this is a safe place. Looking forward to sharing and being a support.  Blessings, Lisa

At 8:03pm on January 16, 2012, ceilya said…

I am overwhelmed by all of your comments.  I only wished I had found this site sooner.  But I know it is the right timing for me.  I finally feel connected.  A safe place to cry, vent or just read and feel a little peace for just a few minutes.  Thank you all for taking the time to comment.  I just want to care again about anything but I can't.  I can pretend to care and it is very believable but I feel like it is a trait I don't possess.  Do any of you feel like I do???  Thanks you all again for just being here.

At 7:52pm on January 16, 2012, Joyce said…

Welcome Ceilya, I'm so sorry for your loss, but I'm glad you found your way to this site.  I know you will find the same comfort and understanding here at WV that I have.

At 3:31pm on January 13, 2012, Letha said…

Hello Ceilya. I'm sorry for your loss, but it's good that you found this site. So many good people here who truly 'get it'. Thank-you for the friend request. Hope to get to know you better.

At 4:47pm on January 9, 2012, rodsgurl09 said…

Ceilya, I'm so sorry for your loss but glad you found us. It is hard to find the balance between dealing with your own grief and helping your children with theirs. Here you can vent, rant, cry, scream....whatever it is you need, and we will listen and understand. Wishing you peace.

At 8:03am on January 8, 2012, Lisa (lost) Lamb said…

I'm so sorry for your loss Ceilya, but I'm glad you joined our journey. This is a wonderful community filled with truly caring people. I hope you find peace and understandy here like i have.

At 7:40pm on January 6, 2012, Dianne in Nevada said…

I'm so very sorry for your loss, ceilya, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here.  Join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences.  Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  Those 'chirps' you hear when you're in Widowed Village mean people are talking in the Chat Room; stop in some time and join the conversations.  I look forward to getting to know you here.

 
 
 

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