"Dusty, that is beautiful."
A community of peers created by the Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation
-
cindyb13
- Female
- Cotati, CA
- United States
- Blog Posts
- Discussions
- Events
- Groups (1)
- Photos
- Photo Albums
- Videos
cindyb13's Page
Latest Activity
cindyb13 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"Hello everyone, lots going on out there today. I have also taken off my wedding ring but I have chosen to wear the ring John surprised me with on our 25th wedding anniversary. Things were very complicated for us at the end of Johns…"
cindyb13 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"mford4 & mynewlife, thank you for the encouraging words. A friend told me shortly have John died that It will get harder right before the pain lessens. One thing I know for sure, we have no control over things and when your spouse…"
cindyb13 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"I am approaching 7 months as a widow. Has anyone had delayed grief? I felt like I was getting through it all so well and then I had a work demotion because my numbers were not where they should be at the end of 2013 (John died…"
cindyb13 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"I agree with chrism, people are just trying to help and I feel like they can say anything to me, I appreciate everyone in my life regardless of how clumsy they may be. All loss is different. All loss is difficult, who are we to assume…"
cindyb13 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"Josephine, sorry you had to come here but it does help. Tomorrow it will be 2 months since John passed. In some ways it feels like years and it other ways it feels like 2 days. The fog will start to lift. I refer to the…"
cindyb13 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"I'm sad today. I agree, its all unbelievable. I am trying to keep all of our holiday traditions the same, thats how the kids want it but talking about it today was just a reminder that nothing will ever be the same. I'm…"
cindyb13 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"Good evening everyone. MrsD - so sorry you are going through so much pain when you should be celebrating with your love. Catlady, this is a good place to start. This is a rough journey and the more support you can get the…"
cindyb13 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"Welcome to those that are new, sorry you are here because you have lost your love. Wednesday it will be 8 weeks. So hard to believe. Today I took a step forward and went through the pictures and memories that we brought home from…"
cindyb13 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"sosadinmichigan it really does suck. Kiki8, cry sister! Its ok to have those feelings. My children are grown but I still dont cry in front of them very much. Not because I dont want to because I just dont but when I get to a…"
cindyb13 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"Thank you to all those members sending hugs. It has been 53 days. I had 2 mud runs this weekend. Yesterday was the Dirty Girl run and I had a complete panic attach when we started running. I ran back and could hardly…"
cindyb13 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"John has been gone now for 50 days. I am starting to come out of my fog. He is sending me signs and its pretty funny. I was cleaning house the other day and I was listening to Santana Radio on Pandora and out of the blue…"
cindyb13 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"Mrs D, my husband had a date with Jack Daniels that ended his life. I understand what you are saying. You are strong. You have to feel sad before you can start feeling better. "
cindyb13 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"I have been reading all the pain you are all going through. I am so sorry. I think because my husband and I had drifted so far apart I had already made a life for myself. It doesnt change the fact I miss him and wish every day he…"
Profile Information
- Do you feel you could use a "buddy" to help you get around the site at first?
- No thanks
- Would you like to add a statement about you to your profile page? For example, the URL of a blog? This answer will be VISIBLE on your profile page.
- One foot in front of the other . . . .
Comment Wall (2 comments)
- At 10:33am on October 20, 2012,
LaurieR said… I really don't know what to say cindyb13. I am sorry for your loss. I am sorry for your children's loss. I was married for almost 30 years also. I know you can't just give up on a person who has been such a big part of your life for so very long. The pain you must be going through must be difficult. You did what you could. I think death and guilt go hand and hand. I know when anyone close to me died, I felt guilty,for could of, would of,should of. Someone on this site told me to let go of the guilt and I did, it made me feel so much better. It is so very hard for people who have not lost their significant other to understand what your going through. People here all have lost their love and understand. If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me. I will do my best to help you. I will send you a friend request, if you wish you can accept.
- At 9:35pm on October 18, 2012,
Joyce said… Welcome cindyb13: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
This site is run by widowed people, for widowed people
Widowed Village connects peers with each other for friendship and sharing. The moderators, administrators, and others involved in running this site are not professionals.
Please don't interpret anything you read here as medical, legal, or otherwise expert advice. Don't disregard any expert's advice or take any action as a result of what you read here.
We're friends, not doctors, financial or legal professionals, and we're not "grief experts." But we are here, and we've been "there."
HOT TOPICS!
© 2013 Created by Supa Dupa Fresh.
