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3 Years

Posted on November 10, 2012 at 9:55am 0 Comments

Hard to believe it's been 3 long years.

Hard to believe it's been 3 short years.

Time is relative you know. Sometimes it seems like it's been forever since I last heard his voice. And yet other days it seems like it wasn't all that long ago. I know I've come a long way in those 3 years. And yet...I know I have a long way to go yet. Not a day goes by still that I don't think of him. Sometimes with a smile, sometimes with a tear...but always with love.


Posted on November 10, 2012 at 9:49am 1 Comment

When tears streak down my face

I can still remember how it felt when you would wipe them away

When I smile

I can still remember how your face would light up when you smiled back at me

When I am frustrated

I can still remember how you would try to fix things

When I am mad

I can still remember how you would try to make sure I had the space I needed

When I am worried

I can still remember how you would hold me and tell me everything is going to be…


Where You Now Reside

Posted on November 10, 2012 at 9:47am 0 Comments

At darkness

I hear the wind carry your voice

From that far away place

In which you now reside.

In bright sun

I see your face

Etched in the clouds

Near where you now reside.

In the dawn...sun peeking

I feel your breath

Upon my cheek

As I look at where you now reside.

At dusk...daylight fading

I smell the slightest hint

Of your skin

As I dream of where you now reside.

- CJ…


Watercolor of Memories

Posted on July 30, 2012 at 9:30am 1 Comment

Watercolors of memories wash my mind

Mixed with the dark, somber colors of pain and loss

Creating a palate of pleasure and pain

All intertwined in wispy tendrils 

That I reach out to grab in my hands

Only to find my hands empty

And so tears run through my heart

Leaving my soul aching

For that which once was but is no more

For it is just a watercolor of memories.

- C Marley

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At 8:19pm on December 2, 2011, Dianne in Nevada said…

Hope you're still dropping by, WolfWife, and that your special day is a good one.


At 6:32pm on August 29, 2011, WiddaWithHope said…
Welcome to widville. I lost my husband to malignant melanoma as well. Cancer sucks. Melanoma double sucks. And death sucks. Although no one wants to join, this club has really helped me. I hope it helps you as well.
At 8:51am on August 23, 2011,
Soaring Spirits
Hey you! Glad you're here, too! XOX
At 9:12pm on August 19, 2011, Lisa (lost) Lamb said…
Welcome CJ, was so nice to meet you in chat the other night. I hope you find the same comfort and understanding here that I have.
At 10:03pm on August 18, 2011, Dianne in Nevada said…
So pleased you found us, CJ - and that you joined us in the Chat Room.  Jump into some of the Forum discussions - you'll find wonderful support here.
At 5:25pm on August 18, 2011, Alive & Mortal said…
Welcome to this raggle-taggle group that all share one profound thing in common. I hope you will find your voice and heart strengthened when you are with us. Be well. I am glad you are here. I love your profile pic.
At 3:37pm on August 18, 2011, wannabmartha said…

So sorry for the reason that you’re here but glad you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same road together some further down the road than others.  Join a group when you’re ready to get better connected. Participate in a forum and/or chat anytime. If you have questions, feel free to ask. There is always someone around willing to help.


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