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LifesAJourney said… Hi Cliff,
I am sorry we have to meet under these circumstances. Thank you for sending a friend request...I am not on as much as I should be..I find this place to be a great source of comfort but I have a tendency to want to withdraw when things get to be too much. Getting better and stronger every day. I hope you are too.

janet said… Thank you for the friend request, Cliff. Sending hugs your way.

Lori said… Cliff,
Thank you for friending me, so glad you found this place, i know your pain my husband was sick for quite a while and in the end bedridden with little ability to even think, he tried so hard to not leave me i had to give him permission to go to a better place, so painful yet the joy of seeing him out of his pain was tangible as well. I was told by my neighbor who lost his partner of 20 years that the 1st year was very hard, he talked to me for quite a while, sharing his pain and embracing mine, it's healing to know someone understands, be blessed.
Thank you Cliff for the friend request. If I can ever do anything to help, or if you just need to talk I'm here everyday on and off. None of us want to be on this journey,but sense we all are it's better to travel together then alone. Welcome again and I hope we can all find some peace here together. (((Hugs)))

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Welcome Cliff I'm so sorry for your loss, but I'm glad you've found us. You will find comfort and understanding here.
Posted on October 31, 2012 at 12:37pm 6 Comments 1 Like
I don't really know how to express my feeling,, All I know is it still hurts so bad...Every day now is the beginning of
the end,, It was exactly this time last year when he began to get so sick,, going to the hospital for the last time on
the 2nd of Nov.. I can never forget that day,,That is why I call it "The beginning of the end" All I wanted was for him
to get better and come home.. But only God had other plans ,, Knowing he had…
ContinuePosted on October 11, 2012 at 11:00am 10 Comments 1 Like
Yes , today is Oct 11th, 2012,, (10.11.12) , Today is a one day closer, and approaching the day I can never forget, I was a couple day after Halloween,, The weather is just is as it was that fateful year, Cool morning with warm sunshine coming down to warm the day..! When Bob had to go to the hospital for the last time.. Will never forget those words he spoke.. after much pleading for me to let me take him,, He would usually refuse to go on his own.. would wait till it was so bad till I…
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