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Samantha (was clare)
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More decisions....

Posted on February 4, 2013 at 8:15pm 2 Comments

I am so overwhelmed today.....had the benefits meeting at work so have to decide which medical plan option is better, for me....each plan is costing the employee more with less covered and more out of pocket for the there is income tax  omg......totally lost there, but have asked a few people if they could recomment anyone to help...too over my head for me to figure out...tried to look up some info on the irs website and guess what, couldnt find a understandable…


I didn't know that.....

Posted on January 27, 2013 at 6:00pm 7 Comments

In trying to get papers organized, finances figured out, stuff like that, has anyone else found out that things were not what you thought they were  (finances, bills, mortgages) and that your love didn't always tell you everything...not that mine was being bad or anything...he just always tried to protect me from things and didnt want me to stress  (?)...did this make any sense?   Sam

losing my mind......

Posted on January 12, 2013 at 5:56pm 4 Comments

I think it would be easier to go insane than to hurt like this......

Hello my sweet Butch.....

Posted on January 9, 2013 at 3:17pm 2 Comments

  I finally found the pictures of the early years......I also found a box of anniversary cards,   I actuallly laughed when I found that we had bought each other the same card on different years, it was a silly card about knowing that we are not perfect, but love each other anyway.......we were so in sync (sp) with each other we picked out the same card, would get dressed and somehow be color coordinated without trying and would know what the other was going to say so much I joked that pretty…


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At 3:20pm on November 29, 2012, Morgana (Janet) said…

So very sorry you were treated that way Clare.  I feel so fortunate I guess to not have any dealings with my family, no phone call when he passed to say I am sorry for your loss, nada.  They just don't get it until they have to go through it.

Hugs being sent your way.


At 7:26am on October 16, 2012, wannabmartha said…

So sorry for the reason that you’re here but glad you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same road together some further down the road than others.  Join a group when you’re ready to get better connected. Participate in a forum and/or chat anytime. If you have questions, feel free to ask. There is always someone around willing to help.



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