"It is very hard to look at someone who made it and you have to ask your self why could this not be him? I always felt that he was going to survive this and in the end I was wrong.I told my children we have to be the survivers now not victims."
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faymeister commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Long-term illness
"My husband was diffrent he spoke of death with his children and explained that he had to go and had no choice.This happend 3 weeks before he died .It was extremly hard to hear him taking about that and I always tryed to convince my self they would…"
faymeister commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 60s
"My husband passed in October last year and it seams unreal.We where married for 22 years and this was suspose to be forever.Now I found out there is not such thing.I have grown a lot true all this and it has chainged my life for ever.
Once I was a…"
faymeister commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Long-term illness
"I am so glade franmcq that it is getting easier .We also feel a little better latly and can tell stories about him without crying.My Girls are doing better then me .They both are such great girls.
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faymeister commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Long-term illness
"OMG we are under Tornado watch again.I have the feeling we live with the urn inthe basment latly.The Kids are getting pritty cool about it.I guess they getting used to it LOL"
faymeister commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Long-term illness
"No singing just playing with the Pets and tellins stories and being glade it was over with after30 minutes."
faymeister commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 60s
"Yep it sucks big big time was 45 when widowed now 46 and missing my best Friend every single day.This was suspose to be forever but he had to go.Where do I go now?
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faymeister commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Long-term illness
"It's hard no metter what or who you are and it is hard on the Kids.My two girls are ajusting slow and I find them once in a wile quietly crying in there room.Every time I say if you said call me they answer "I dont want to make you…"
faymeister commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Long-term illness
"I also had a husband that batteled Melanoma and it was hell.The Doctores here call it the silent killer because by the time you get symptomes it is to late.I as well was a nurse that gave her Job up to care for him.I know this empty feeling and…"
faymeister commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Long-term illness
"Eastern not one of my favoriet Holidays but today it is akso my little Girls 13th Birthday.She has grown so much and reminds me so much of my husband .So to all of you Happy Eastern espcially if you havechildren .I hope it was not to tuff and…"
faymeister commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Long-term illness
"Time flys by that's what I use to say and now it seams to me it stands still whats up with that?My younges daughter will turn 13 tomorrow and Rob use to say he could not wait untill they both turn teens.He loved those Girls so much…"
faymeister commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Long-term illness
"We had our first storm with Tonado warning so we all had to go in the basement at 2am in the morning.We where downstairs about five minutes when my younges daughter started crying.I was assuming she was scared but her only concern was her…"
faymeister commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Long-term illness
"Hey there Sparky,
I hope you will find this to be great therapie the way I do.I am sorry for your loss and know that you will find her a lot of people that share the the same story and it makes you feel not so alone ."
faymeister commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Long-term illness
"People dont understand that taking care of a cancer patient is so much more then a sick person.I took care of my husband day and night for 6 month.I had to give up my Job because I promised him I would not get hospic at all.Some times he was…"
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Posted on March 10, 2011 at 7:00pm 3 Comments 0 Likes
I think that I today ,realized that my husband (because he was sick for so long) has left us much longer then six month ago and that made me very said.I wonder how he left and I did not realized it.My daughter said ,that he left us last May ,when the found all his brain tumors and I was just to bussy, finding new cures to see it.Maybe she is right ,I lost him so much longer then what it seams.So where do I go from here ?I guess ,I have to start a new life .I will call it my second…
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- At 4:39pm on March 14, 2011,
Dianne in Nevada said… Hi Faymeister. Good to have join us in the Long-Term Illness group. I hope you'll find some good connections here. The group helps you see others you have something in common with; request them as friends and get to know them a little better. Jump into some of the forum discussions and try out the chat room some time.
I lost my husband in September 2010 after a long cancer battle; I understand your apprehension about where we go from here. Widowed Village is a good place to help you walk that new journey.
- At 5:16pm on March 10, 2011,
Alive & Mortal said… - Welcome, hope you feel at home with us!
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