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WiddaWithHope
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  • Louisville, KY
  • United States
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WiddaWithHope commented on carolynne's blog post SSLF Survey
"(((Hugs))). I think you do need a break from school. You have worked so hard (even at camp). Take some time for you. It's so easy to put kids, school, work, etc first. Be patient with yourself. The grief coaster will soon start going up! Take…"
May 7
telechick left a comment for WiddaWithHope
"Hi there -  thanks for tracking me down.  I didn't do a very good job of noting people's "handles" at CWE.  Hope you had an easy trip home.  It was great to get to know you. Liza"
Apr 25
WiddaWithHope is attending Dianne in Nevada's event
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CAMP WIDOW EAST 2013 at Myrtle Beach Marriott Resort & Spa at Grande Dunes

April 19, 2013 at 9am to April 21, 2013 at 12pm
Join us at the 2nd Camp Widow East, returning to Myrtle Beach. Here's a link to our group rate reservation:Group Hotel Reservation LinkRegistration: $325 for Widowed Village members (use the "group rate"). Save $50! …See More
Apr 15
WiddaWithHope liked Rennae's blog post Started the First Day of My New Life Today
Mar 31
WiddaWithHope liked Susan's blog post Please forgive me
Mar 27
WiddaWithHope replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion Camp Widow East 2013
"My flight lands at 945am Thursday. Would you be able to pick me up? ;)"
Mar 19
WiddaWithHope replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion Camp Widow East 2013
"Beautiful dress"
Mar 16
WiddaWithHope commented on Dianne in Nevada's event Widville Meet-Up at Camp Widow East
"I'll be there at 4. See you then!"
Mar 7
WiddaWithHope liked Janine (txmomx6)'s blog post There's No Comparison ......
Mar 7
WiddaWithHope replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion Camp Widow East 2013
"I can't wait to see everyone again too! Brenda aka crazy widow and I became great friends through camp. It's an awesome experience."
Feb 20
WiddaWithHope replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion Camp Widow East 2013
"Hello Everyone! It's been awhile since I've been on the site. I've just been so busy. I'm really looking forward to camp and reconnecting with everyone. I'd like to volunteer so just tell me what you need me to do Dianne! I…"
Feb 18
WidowsWindow and WiddaWithHope are now friends
Dec 10, 2012
WiddaWithHope replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"It will be two years on Thursday. Just today, I had someone offer their condolences then say " if he was right with the Lord, then it's all okay." really?"
Nov 6, 2012
suebru (Sue) liked WiddaWithHope's blog post My Camp Widow Experience
Sep 24, 2012
WiddaWithHope commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"Today would have been our 10 year anniversary. We should be on a second honeymoon or something fabulous. I spent the day with my mom and friends. We went to the restaurant where we celebrated our last anniversary together. Tried to celebrate the…"
Sep 6, 2012
WiddaWithHope liked kellyp6432's event William's 32nd Birthday
Aug 11, 2012

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THE Birthday

Posted on October 27, 2011 at 8:55am 9 Comments

As I was driving the kids to school this morning, I started having a flashback of my early days of widowhood. Driving the kids to school in the rain, thinking about what I needed from the grocery and trying to cover up the massive pain in my heart. I've come along way from those days where everything was numb except the giant whole in my gut. But today, it is back. I'm trying to scream it out, sleep it out, eat it out,cry it out, throw it up - anything to stop this pain. My heart is just so… Continue

My Camp Widow Experience

Posted on August 29, 2011 at 12:29pm 9 Comments

Since returning from camp, I've been trying to find the right words to describe my experience. I'm not sure I can totally describe it here but I want to try before I forget. Lol.

When I first heard about camp, I felt the calling to attend. But I let my insecurities sway me other wise. I didn't know anybody, it is far away, I don't need to spend money on this, whose gonna watch the kids, it will hurt the kids if I'm gone that long, I don't need to travel by myself, etc. For weeks, these…

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Oh Good Grief

Posted on August 3, 2011 at 11:32pm 3 Comments

Oh grief! I hide you so well. But today grief, today you got me!

Each morning I wake up and walk out into the world with a big smile on my face. I run kids to and fro. I workout. Go to physical therapy. Clean up around the house. Maybe do some laundry. Fix dinner. Give baths. Read stories. Put kids to bed. Then watch tv until the melatonin kicks in and I drift off to sleep. All the while keeping you grief, tucked away somewhere. Probably in the endless abyss I call my purse. Sometimes I… Continue

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At 7:05am on April 25, 2013, telechick said…

Hi there -  thanks for tracking me down.  I didn't do a very good job of noting people's "handles" at CWE.  Hope you had an easy trip home.  It was great to get to know you.

Liza

At 2:27am on July 22, 2012, Cspan said…
Thanks for reaching out...melanoma is awful
I am thinking of going to widow camp in San Diego but not sure
It sounds like it was helpful to you...would love to hear your thoughts
Claire
At 5:18pm on June 11, 2012, carolynne said…

Thanks for friending me!

At 3:04am on May 8, 2012, Greggies Widow said…

thanks for finding me on here! <3 ya

At 9:17am on October 25, 2011, CrazyWidow said…
Big ole hugs.
At 3:55pm on October 18, 2011, CrazyWidow said…
I just want to say I <3 you.
At 1:09pm on May 25, 2011, Dianne in Nevada said…
Welcome to Widowed Village, haleO.  I see you've already joined some groups. That's a great way to find others who may have similar experiences. And there are some great conversations taking place in the Forums and chat room. I look forward to getting acquainted with you here in this very special place.
At 8:25pm on May 24, 2011, Alive & Mortal said…
Welcome to our virtual community. I am glad that you found us. I hope you locate a lot of strength and hope - you are not alone!
At 10:22pm on May 23, 2011,
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