Hello everyone,I lost my best friend and soulmate in April very suddenly to a cardiac event. I'm coming up on 6 months since he has been gone and, for some reason, this week has been particularly…Continue
Hello everyone,I became widowed on 4/15/2020. My husband and I spent the day together, me working from home due to COVID and he was furloughed for the same reason. After work, I cooked dinner. We…Continue
"Today marks 6 months that my beloved soulmate has been gone. I don't understand how 6 months have gone by when I feel like time is standing still. I am so frustrated that his name doesn't cross the lips of others who claim to…"
"Plans. I had plan to redo one of the mountain bike that I built in the late 80's so we could get in shape. There is a big gathering out of FairfaxCA. It's called the Thanksgiving ride. Or known as the pine mountain loop. I was really…"
"I agree, tired of being sad. I have had such amazing support but I am tired of being the one that everyone asks "how are you" and they are going out of their way to make sure I am visited often. Some days I just want to be alone and then…"
"I know the pain. I had plans. But how were am I going. It's been 3 months. I don't have a clue. I'm still dealing with all the loose ends. Paperwork, records and belongings. The pain was so bad I had to go on some…"
Im the same way. I feel disconnected from life. It will be 5 months Oct 15th and I miss him more with each passing day. Nothing holds my interest so I find myself bouncing from one thing to the next. I use to be the upbeat, optimistic one…"
"Why are Sunday’s so hard? Who am I kidding, the weekends are always hard. During the week, at least I have work to keep me busy. The weekends are quiet and lonely. How am I supposed to do this for another 30 years?"
"Maggie May - I have always enjoyed cooking and baking. My husband used to rub his belly and tell people "in case you couldn't tell, my wife is a great cook"! This always made me chuckle. So, even thought it's…"
"Last night, while cooking dinner, I burned my hand pretty badly. I grabbed a pan that I had just pulled out of a 400 degree oven. I know, stupid! Anyway, I kept soaking my hand in cool water just to get some relief. This sent…"
I am so tired of feeling sad. Next week will be 6 months since he has been gone. I have this general feeling of sadness all the time. The house is so quiet. Just me and the dogs. I was always an upbeat, optimistic person. Now, there’s just no purpose anymore. I miss him so much I feel it in my bones. It is physical pain.See More
"((Darci)) I am nearly 3 yrs out. I lost my everything to the same.
I think maybe the shock of it is wearing off for you. So naturally, it gets worse before it gets better. Just know better days are ahead. …"
Im sorry for your loss and completely understand what you are feeling.
I am 4 1/2 months out of loosing my husband & soulmate to a sudden cardiac event as well.
I am doing the same as you. Working from home and trying to take care of…"
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