"Thanks for thinking of me Silverlady. Bend is ok...I am very homesick, but moved here for my daughter's education and she is doing awesome in RPA. I am especially emotional this year and feely very lonely. I also celebrated my anniversary last…"
"Feeling very lonely... it's weird..this time last year ( my anniversary and Thanksgiving a week later) I felt fine. But this year, I just want to cry and stay in bed. I feel sooo alone..even in a room full of people."
"So I have made a huge mistake. I was excited to move..after 20 years..to a new place so my daughter could try a new school. So withy thinking it through..I quit my good job, left my comfort zone, friends etc and moved 6 hours away to a different…"
"Welcome LadyG, everything you described is pretty normal, for me anyway. It has been four years for me and the tears still flow and the sadness remains. I guess II cal it my new normal. I just take one day at a time. Things will pop up here and…"
"Hello all, I have not been on here in awhile. I have been trudging along one day at a time. I don't cry as often and maybe I even smile a little more. I got married at 24. I went from Dad to dorms to husband so I have never done really anything…"
I'm sorry for your loss..It's been 2 yrs since I lost my husband of 22 yrs. I have an 8 and a 17 yr old. I can only say that when I was where you are, I didn't think i could breathe my guts seemed to be exposed to the world. I was sick to my stomach for about 8 months. But, as everyone told me, time is healing me. I can now focus on the blessings and not the horrors. But that takes time. I can only advise to be good to yourself, do what ever makes you happy. This site helps a lot, just reading how others are feeling the same thing makes it feel less empty and alone. God bless you and your kids. You will make it though.
Welcome to Widowed Village. I am very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You will find caring support and friendship here.
Here is the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you will find meaningful conversations taking place. I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.