"we all feel your pain :( me and my son were just talking about my husband yesterday. He was murdered in our car in front of our home, however my son never saw his dad in the hospital. He saw him before a class and then when i told him the news hours…"
":( i know its horrible but im glad we have this website to know there are others who understand our pain. I have been reading the posts throughout the day, my hearts aches and i cant stop myself from crying as i read them. I always begin to prepare…"
"sorry for your loss ladies, our husbands were much too young to go. my husband too was 43, he would have turned 45 this last october. We were together 12 yrs, and he was murdered. Our son was 11, now 13. its horrible to have someone soo close…"
"going to make it- i also have family that worry i dont get out enough....sometimes i understand, i have no desire to date, but i am lonely and wouldnt mind having someone to hang out with every once in a while. My life before was my husband,…"
"Kerrian- i did actually move away from my home, however i had several factors involved. Honestly, i do not miss all the people who looked at me with pitty. I do miss my old home, wish i could of picked it up and moved it. We had several friends but…"
"the wonderful memories i have :) but at the same time i can burst into tears for the smallest thing :( i have always worked but after my husband passed i became a workaholic....only because it kept me sane. i have even had break downs at work but i…"
"helen- sorry for your loss, we all know too well your pain. My husbands heaven bday was yesterday :( i still feel lonely every day, and i definatly know it sucks. our husbands were our friends, lovers, and soulmates. i miss having someone to come…"
"MrsD===I agree, it helps to talk to others who are dealing with the same thing, i know when others are talking about long term illness, i cannot relate, but its hard to find someone who can relate to their husband being murdered, as i assume it must…"
"we all hurt, and i feel sorry for everyone on this sight, but i do wish our family had many years together. i want to grow old with my husband, i want my son to experience the father & son experiences. He left behind 4 other adult children, and…"
"my husband did not have long term care, but i was angry that the ambulance took 25 min to come, if i would have known i would have taken him to the hospital myself, which was ten minutes away. Also i feel like the police were aweful. i begged them…"
"susan- i believe the link is illusion of closure, i think diane in nevada also posted link, it is on this sight. its about closure, but that we dont really get over it and thats ok, its other people that need to except it. it is actually a great…"
"(HUGS) to everyone. I like this sight because we can vent to people who understand. Dianne in Nevada i will check out the link thanks. going on, I get it, i just go through the motions during the holidays, i think thats why we cant…"
"Kerryn my son is now 13, i did the same thing last year tried to pull it together so he could have some sort of "normal" christmas. I havnt gathered myself yet to do anything. I use to LOVE christmas. My son and step kids use to…"
Hey Ivanna23 Thanks for the good thoughts! Show went all right, lots of people through and sold some things, so good. AM tired from all the driving, the gallery is back where we used to live, 4 hours away, so looking forward to some quiet time
Welcone ivanna23: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It"
So sorry for the reason you’re here but glad that you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same journey together some further down the road than others. Join a group when you’re ready to get better connected. Participate in a forum and/or chat anytime. If you have questions, feel free to ask. There is always someone around willing to help.