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kittycat
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strivingforjoy (Cheri) left a comment for kittycat
"Are you still out there Kittykat?  I fell off the face of the earth apparently....long story.  Hoping you're still here."
Apr 4, 2016
kittycat updated their profile
Sep 30, 2014
kittycat commented on kittycat's video
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"Goodbye For Now" by Kathy Troccoli

"This made me cry but states how I feel.  I hope it brings grace to your loss."
Apr 7, 2013
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"Goodbye For Now" by Kathy Troccoli

This is for those who are waiting to be reunited with loved ones in Heaven. Lyrics: I can't believe that you're really gone now Seems like it's all just a dr...
Apr 7, 2013
kittycat commented on AlanRRT's blog post One year
"Alan, nice post and several points hit home for me.  I too used to work in a hospital and at first returning to work was ok, cried during breaks and lunch, wiped my face and went back to work.  Then the organization decided to close our…"
Mar 25, 2013
kittycat liked Drewlady's blog post Drewlady/Confident Widow Blue Valentine
Feb 14, 2013
Mara left a comment for kittycat
"Hi Kittycat! Thanks for the invite. I love your 'name'. I am absolutely crazy about cats. Does 'Kittycat' has a connection to cats or is it something else?"
Feb 13, 2013
Mara and kittycat are now friends
Feb 13, 2013
kittycat commented on Moving On's blog post Short and to the Point
"Me too, thanks for the Hug and here's one back to you with a BIG SMILE! "
Feb 12, 2013
kittycat commented on Barbie Doll's blog post Anniversary of the Beginning of the End
"The words that came to my mind after reading all your posts, was WOW!  Everyone has wonderful ideas; releasing balloons that you have written on, get out that memory box, I have many videos of Tom and I camping, swimming at the river, and just…"
Feb 12, 2013
kittycat and Barbie Doll are now friends
Feb 12, 2013
kittycat commented on Barbie Doll's blog post Anniversary of the Beginning of the End
"I concer with what you wish. my husband never went to the doctor, he was fitter than most men his age 54 when he became ill. i too watched and tried to make a pack with God to take me instead as my strapping husband disappeared before my eyes the…"
Feb 8, 2013
kittycat commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2012
"Dear GG.  It's 5 months today, for me. When people ask me that crazy question, I tell them, "It doesn't get lonelier than this".  I share with them my true feelings and you should too.  Sharing…"
Feb 5, 2013
kittycat commented on Susan D (Profe D)'s blog post I LOVE HIM. I MISS HIM.
"Beautiful song and thanks for sharing it.  I believe all of us will always have our loved ones living in us until it comes time for them to take us home.  Superbowl Sunday, another first.  Can't decide what to do with myself…"
Feb 3, 2013

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Feb 3, 2013
kittycat commented on Soaring Spirits's group Long-term illness
"My loving husband Tom, I called him Tommy Boy or Strong Dumb Man, crossed over September 5, 2012.  He case was rare and he became ill first with necrotizing fascitis on September 11, 2010.  What a memoriable day that was for all.  It…"
Jan 26, 2013

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My husband Tom passed away on Sept. 5th, 2012 at our home after fighting cancer for two years.  He was only 56 years old.  I am devestated to say the least, we had only been married for one year and together for five years.  A short but passionate partnership.  He was my best friend, we went rockhounding, camping, hiking, played cribbage daily and just enjoyed each other's company.  He was my Mountain Man, actually I named him Strong Dumb Man, when I met him.  I mean that endearingly too.  I was his Good Squaw.  We both rode motorcycles and loved to just take off and go riding for the day.  I am broken and so sad from this loss.  Enough for now. 

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At 7:52am on April 4, 2016, strivingforjoy (Cheri) said…

Are you still out there Kittykat?  I fell off the face of the earth apparently....long story.  Hoping you're still here.

At 12:33am on February 13, 2013, Mara said…

Hi Kittycat! Thanks for the invite. I love your 'name'. I am absolutely crazy about cats. Does 'Kittycat' has a connection to cats or is it something else?

At 1:48pm on October 17, 2012, wannabmartha said…

The cloudy mind thing is a common feeling for all of us going through grief. As you read about others experiences on this site, I think you'll find many other things we all have in common. I encourage you to read the discussions (maybe even comment) and some of the blogs. You'll feel as though you're looking in the mirror, I'm sure. I'm available anytime you'd like to talk. It's baby steps, don't be too hard on yourself.

At 7:31am on October 16, 2012, wannabmartha said…

So sorry for the reason that you’re here but glad you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same road together some further down the road than others.  Join a group when you’re ready to get better connected. Participate in a forum and/or chat anytime. If you have questions, feel free to ask. There is always someone around willing to help.

 

 
 
 

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