I lost my beloved husband of 3 years on September 20, 2012. We were together for 5 years, married for 3. I am 38, he was 50, we had no children, but we had 2 Siamese cats that we adored. Two weeks before he died, the doctor told us he had 1 to 2 years to live without a liver transplant, which was scary enough, but less than a week later he was in the hospital in a coma, and less than a week after that, he died. So it was very sudden. I am so grateful for his parents who are close by and share my grief, and plenty of friends but right now I am most interested in talking to women who have been there. Glad I found you all.