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martine
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  • Philadelphia, PA
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Newby (Ken) liked martine's photo
Jul 6, 2012
martine joined Supa Dupa Fresh's group
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Suddenly widowed

For those widowed suddenly or unexpectedly by any cause. The complementary group is "Long term illness." Yes, you may join both.We now have a "Suddenly widowed" discussion in the PERENNIAL main forum. Q's? Widville@gmail.comSee More
May 14, 2012
martine and BrittneyR are now friends
May 10, 2012
martine commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"i have a good one for this, i think. somebody told me to get a 'single ring'.  An indication that you're in a relationship with yourself. I kind of love this. I've been trying to get more grounded and trying to remember what…"
May 1, 2012
carolynne and martine are now friends
Apr 28, 2012
carolynne left a comment for martine
"Martine, I'm so very sorry for the loss that brings you here, but glad you've found us. I saw your comment on Celestia's page....I am only at 10 months, but I am already getting an idea of how our grief changes day to day, week to…"
Apr 27, 2012
martine and Supa Dupa Fresh are now friends
Apr 16, 2012
Supa Dupa Fresh left a comment for martine
"Welcome to our community.... I hope we can keep you company on your journey ahead. Please look around a bit and read this basic introduction to the site. You can find more information about how the community works under "Help!" in the…"
Apr 16, 2012
Denise left a comment for martine
"Happy Birthday!"
Apr 16, 2012
celestia (Suzanne) left a comment for martine
"NO! Martine, god no. It gets so much easier and it doesn't take 10 years. I haven't been grieving for year now. I mean it comes and goes but it stays only briefly. Fleeting even. Take heart!"
Apr 10, 2012
martine and celestia (Suzanne) are now friends
Apr 10, 2012
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Apr 9, 2012
kl left a comment for martine
"thank you martine , just want to share thoughts and ideas,, I could use some advise on life in general, how to deal with a loss kl"
Apr 9, 2012
martine is now friends with kl and jean
Apr 9, 2012
martine joined Supa Dupa Fresh's group
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Widowed in 2010

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Apr 4, 2012
martine commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 70s
"Hi hi hi. I'm new here. My husband was a hard-rocking atheist. I was raised Quaker and Catholic. I'm not really religious, but I guess I have some ideals. I think at the beginning, I felt like my husband's presence was still around.…"
Apr 3, 2012

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At 10:45pm on April 27, 2012, carolynne said…

Martine, I'm so very sorry for the loss that brings you here, but glad you've found us. I saw your comment on Celestia's page....I am only at 10 months, but I am already getting an idea of how our grief changes day to day, week to week, month to month...you get my point. I think 10 years will look a lot different than 1 or 2 or 5. My hope is that someday, maybe by the 10 year mark, I can remember Rodney with a smile instead of torrential tears. But no....we will NEVER forget, they will NEVER leave us, of this I am quite sure. Grieving in 10  years? Of course. Surviving and perhaps even thriving? Yes, also a matter of course. (((hugs))) I hope to get to know you better. I am honored to walk this journey alongside you.

At 10:15pm on April 16, 2012,
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Welcome to our community.... I hope we can keep you company on your journey ahead. Please look around a bit and read this basic introduction to the site. You can find more information about how the community works under "Help!" in the navigation bar, and we'll send you a few newsletters with tips and ideas in the coming weeks. If you need a little more help, go to the Home page and look in the right hand column to see the link to a "Help Desk" form.
We all use the site differently, but we hope you feel comfortable sharing among us in the coming days, weeks, and months.
Big hug!
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At 7:17am on April 16, 2012, Denise said…
Happy Birthday!
At 11:39am on April 10, 2012, celestia (Suzanne) said…

NO! Martine, god no. It gets so much easier and it doesn't take 10 years. I haven't been grieving for year now. I mean it comes and goes but it stays only briefly. Fleeting even. Take heart!

At 9:40am on April 9, 2012, kl said…

thank you martine , just want to share thoughts and ideas,, I could use some advise on life in general, how to deal with a loss kl

At 6:04am on April 5, 2012, Lisa (lost) Lamb said…

I'm so sorry for the loss that brought you here Martine, but I'm glad you've joined us. This in a wonderful and safe place to open up and let your true feelings out. You will find comfort and peace here,and many new friends. Welcome!

At 7:12pm on April 3, 2012, Joyce said…

Welcome Martine: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at WV that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".

 
 
 

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