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carolynne said… Martine, I'm so very sorry for the loss that brings you here, but glad you've found us. I saw your comment on Celestia's page....I am only at 10 months, but I am already getting an idea of how our grief changes day to day, week to week, month to month...you get my point. I think 10 years will look a lot different than 1 or 2 or 5. My hope is that someday, maybe by the 10 year mark, I can remember Rodney with a smile instead of torrential tears. But no....we will NEVER forget, they will NEVER leave us, of this I am quite sure. Grieving in 10 years? Of course. Surviving and perhaps even thriving? Yes, also a matter of course. (((hugs))) I hope to get to know you better. I am honored to walk this journey alongside you.

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Denise said…
celestia (Suzanne) said… NO! Martine, god no. It gets so much easier and it doesn't take 10 years. I haven't been grieving for year now. I mean it comes and goes but it stays only briefly. Fleeting even. Take heart!
kl said… thank you martine , just want to share thoughts and ideas,, I could use some advise on life in general, how to deal with a loss kl
I'm so sorry for the loss that brought you here Martine, but I'm glad you've joined us. This in a wonderful and safe place to open up and let your true feelings out. You will find comfort and peace here,and many new friends. Welcome!
Joyce said… Welcome Martine: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at WV that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
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