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"http://widowedvillage.org/events/central-pennsylvania-post-holiday-widow-bash Hi Mary, just wanted to invite you to our post-holiday widows bash in Harrisburg on 1/14 - I hope you can join us!"
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"I am the process of planning a Holiday Bash for widows in or near Central Pennsylvania for sometime in mid-December on a weeknight. So far we have an offer for a private room in a restaurant in New Holland (Eastern Lancaster County) with no…"
mary commented on Susan B's blog post Am I becoming invisible?
"@Sally Starre: :) (Your name reminds me of a TV show if watched when I was small) LOL"
mary commented on Susan B's blog post Am I becoming invisible?
"Agreed 100% ! Today is my birthday. Nothing. I changed my attitude to : Make my own happiness...it is the only way. Other wise I will go crazy! People say, "You will remarry." Are they crazy? I am 48 today. All I want is…"
twinsmum commented on mary's blog post Going thru the motions
"Oh I hear you Mary and Shayne....just had my venting blog yesterday too. My hubby past just over 17 months ago. And yes many said they would help so when I send out a vent on facebook I get comments, have some wine or (from my divorced…"
mary commented on AlwaysMrsLeBus's blog post 1 week and 1 day
"I was in tears reading this. Your husband is with you everyday. God bless you and your family. I know exactly what you are feeling. My husband had a heart attack very suddenly and I often wish if I noticed any signs I maybe could have done…"
shayne commented on mary's blog post Going thru the motions
"Hi Mary:
Sitting here reading your thoughts and struggles I understand your emotions. It doesn
t matter how long it has been( I am also 25 months since I lost my husband) no one truly gets except those of us here on this website. People move on that…"
mary commented on twinsmum's blog post Argggghhhh......Vent vent vent
"OMG>>>Someone finally said what I was thinking..."How dare he die and leave me with this mess". I too have and pool that only he could get working as well as a house that is in the middle of repair and a fist full of bills and…"
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Going thru the motions
Dragging myself out of bed and getting into the shower. Getting ready to go to a place where I do not want to go. Dragging my butt to church and going thru the motions. Putting on that happy and "I have everything under control" face on for the community and my sons. It seems as if I am always going thru the motions to make everyone ( including family) think I am ok. My life is so different now. Everyone has returned to theirs as I knew they would (my husband died 2 1/2 years ago). What…See More
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Lisa (lost) Lamb left a comment for mary
"Welcome Mary So sorry for the reason you needed this place but so glad you found us. loss , griefe and being alone seen to go hand in hand for most people. It donsn't have to be that way here. We are all here and can help you with what…"
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Going thru the motions
Posted on October 9, 2011 at 7:52am 2 Comments 0 Likes
Dragging myself out of bed and getting into the shower. Getting ready to go to a place where I do not want to go. Dragging my butt to church and going thru the motions. Putting on that happy and "I have everything under control" face on for the community and my sons. It seems as if I am always going thru the motions to make everyone ( including family) think I am ok. My life is so different now. Everyone has returned to theirs as I knew they would (my husband died 2 1/2 years ago). What…
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- At 11:52am on January 3, 2012,
CrazyWidow said… http://widowedvillage.org/events/central-pennsylvania-post-holiday-widow-bash Hi Mary, just wanted to invite you to our post-holiday widows bash in Harrisburg on 1/14 - I hope you can join us!
- At 10:40am on November 16, 2011, CrazyWidow said…
I am the process of planning a Holiday Bash for widows in or near Central Pennsylvania for sometime in mid-December on a weeknight. So far we have an offer for a private room in a restaurant in New Holland (Eastern Lancaster County) with no obligation to purchase a meal or drinks, just a nice place to hang with one another. If you're interested, please join in on this conversation: http://widowedvillage.org/forum/topics/central-pennsylvania-holiday-dinner?xg_source=activity Thank you!
- At 3:30am on August 16, 2011,
Lisa (lost) Lamb said…
- Welcome Mary So sorry for the reason you needed this place but so glad you found us. loss , griefe and being alone seen to go hand in hand for most people. It donsn't have to be that way here. We are all here and can help you with what ever you need at the time. We all have so many ups and downs it;s nice when people will listen no matter what come on into chat you never know what we wil be taking about
- At 3:06pm on August 14, 2011,
Dianne in Nevada said… 
So pleased you found us, Mary. Take a look around and join our conversations - in the Groups, Forums and Chat Room. You'll find wonderful support here.
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