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mollheart
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  • El Cerrito, CA
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Dianne in Nevada left a comment for mollheart
" Hoping you are surrounded by love and peace on this special day. Happy Birthday, Mollheart."
Sep 2, 2012
jenni and mollheart are now friends
Mar 3, 2012
mollheart replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi Susieg, I just read your introduction of who you are and who your beloved husband was.  I wanted to say that I am sorry for your deep loss. I am "new" to this site having discovered it several weeks ago. I lost my dear husband,…"
Nov 27, 2011
mollheart replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion Surviving the holidays: ideas, tools, alternatives, experiences
"Thank you Robin and Dianne for your supportive and caring feedback. Yes, I do love to write - brings me a sense of comfort and peace in being able to communicate some of those very raw feelings that often we cannot say aloud in our desire to keep…"
Nov 26, 2011
mollheart replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion Surviving the holidays: ideas, tools, alternatives, experiences
"Hello to all who posted on this site on the early morning of Thanksgiving: Arlene, Mahagen, Crazywidow,Mrs. Hulse (Missy), Kaycee, my heart goes out to all of you who are feeling the deep loss of your husbands now. Yes, this is also my first without…"
Nov 24, 2011
mollheart commented on mollheart's blog post A WIDOW'S PEEK
"Mrossman, as I was looking at my husband's blown up photograph that I had taken of him in profile a while ago and feeling the tears of deep longing, I remembered I was logged onto WV and there was your messsage. Thank you. It came at just the…"
Nov 23, 2011
mrossman commented on mollheart's blog post A WIDOW'S PEEK
"Thank you for sharing your beautiful story"
Nov 23, 2011
mollheart commented on mollheart's blog post A WIDOW'S PEEK
"Thank you both Carolynne and Lisa (lost) Lamb - It was lovely to wake up this morning on this dark grey skies morning pre-Thanksgiving to read of your comments on my first blog - "A Widow's Peek".  Blessings to you, Mollheart…"
Nov 23, 2011
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rodsgurl09 commented on mollheart's blog post A WIDOW'S PEEK
"Absolutely lovely, thank you for sharing. You write beautifully."
Nov 23, 2011
mollheart commented on mollheart's blog post A WIDOW'S PEEK
"Hi Linda, I am so glad you took the time to read my first blog and appreciate your supportive comment. Thank you.  Yes, I am sorry that we all have to be here; yet there is a kind of comfort in beginning to include WV in my new daily life... as…"
Nov 22, 2011
mollheart commented on mollheart's blog post A WIDOW'S PEEK
"Thank you for your comment, Ahilario80 (sure there is a good story behind your name?)....And yes, I will keep writing; really appreciate your support.  Take care. - Molly "
Nov 22, 2011
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Ariana commented on mollheart's blog post A WIDOW'S PEEK
"Beautifully written :) Thank you for sharing with us such deep, intimate thoughts. We are all with you, one big team all on your side :) Please keep writing :)"
Nov 21, 2011
mollheart commented on mollheart's blog post A WIDOW'S PEEK
"Thank you, Lori. Means a lot to hear your words from such a talented writer that you are.  Let's stay in touch now that we know we are "neighbors and share in similar ways"... - Molly"
Nov 21, 2011

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A WIDOW'S PEEK

Posted on November 21, 2011 at 6:08pm 11 Comments

Nov. 21, 2011

Good morning on this crisp golden-leaves-turning California Monday. In reading others blogs I am moved by your expressions of your own personal experiences of deepest loss.

My first blog and first writing.... So many new beginnings now...How does one really define all the pivotal…

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At 5:04pm on September 2, 2012, Dianne in Nevada said…

Hoping you are surrounded by love and peace on this special day. Happy Birthday, Mollheart.

At 8:06pm on November 21, 2011, flamingt said…

Hi!  Yes, I'm in Antioch.  I'm so glad that you are on too.  This website has been such value, I wish I had found it four years ago!!!

 

Every day is a step in the right direction.  Today....was a most significant day.  I have not been this DOWN since Christmas of 2007!  I'd like to compare it to " postpartum blues".  I think by releasing this book unto the publisher, I have completed a big step, but...Now What?  Some of this process is not totally the book, but I finally had a great counseling session with my 37 year old daughter on Saturday.  The counselor said stuff would come up, and he's not kidding!"  

 

I woke up this a.m. at 5:15 feeling off and crying.  I tried meditation, that didn't work...true true sadness.  I finally got up and did some detail on the book for the publisher - a good distraction -  but then more crying.

 

I tried some retail therapy at Costco - not helpful, too many people there -- but I did eat up all the samples!  :-)

Just got back from a good workout at the gym and I do feel better.  I have this need to blog.  So you might see a little bit more of this in my blog.  I think I'll trip over to yours.  Again, welcome!  Everything is happening exactly the way it should.

At 2:44pm on November 20, 2011, junebug132 said…

Happy to be friends,but very sorry for your loss that led you here.I finally got moved to Va. to live with my son.He works all the time and I'm trying to get adjusted to this new life.I just hate this lonely feeling and I'm worried if it will ever get less.This does help talking with people that are feeling and going through the same heartache as I am.Makes you feel not as alone.I'm really grateful to everyone on here.God Bless all of you!!!

At 8:24am on November 3, 2011, Dianne in Nevada said…
I'm pleased you found us, mollheart. Take a look around and join our conversations in the Groups and Forums. Tell us your story. You'll find wonderful support here.
At 9:48pm on October 31, 2011, rodsgurl09 said…
I'm so sorry for your loss, but glad you've found us. I hope you'll find the same support and understanding that I have. The groups are really helpful, you'll talk to people in circumstances similar to yours. The chirping noise you hear is chat...the window is collapsed in the bottom right hand corner of your screen. Join us when you're ready.
At 7:26am on October 31, 2011, Lisa (lost) Lamb said…
I'm so sorry for your loss, but so glad you found us. Widow Village has a great group of people that truly understand. Join in a group, forum, write a blog or come to chat you will find comfort in sharing, I know I have. 
 
 
 

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