"Rook, so sorry about you wife, I totally feel for you. I walked that same path for so long. Funny, my husband just turned 44 this year...and my daughter is 10 too. We only made it to our 17th anniversary though but…"
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mom'staxi commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Long-term illness
"((HUGS)) to you Tammy S. though our stories are not quite the same, parts feel the same and I feel your struggles. My DH was diagnosed in 2005 with Stage III Colon Cancer. (We fell in the anything that could go wrong…"
mom'staxi commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"I "coped" with it all (sort of) as I always do in crisis mode and got through it so very thankful that we didn't get more damage. The problem is it isn't ending, nothing seems to be getting resolved or getting fixed. I…"
mom'staxi commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"10 weeks now and it seems like it only gets harder. I had so much hope a month ago that I can't find now. Very hard to imagine it will get better. I hate this mind set I am in right now and yet I can't shake it off no…"
mom'staxi commented on mom'staxi's blog post First Soccer Tournament Alone
"Thanks for the support all. Sorry to hear that Debbie ((HUGS)) back you and all of you. You have mice. I found a frog! A newt the other day too. Every time I go to the basement I fear what animal planet experience I…"
Debbie commented on mom'staxi's blog post First Soccer Tournament Alone
"I can completely relate to you. My daughter had her first soccer practice last Friday - first one without her Daddy. My husband was an avid soccer player (even that is an under statement) and it hurt so much to be on the field without him there. She…"
KrisE commented on mom'staxi's blog post First Soccer Tournament Alone
"Big Hugs to you! My first ski jumping tournament w/out my husband was hard too. He was involved in this sport for 43 years in some form or another! I got thru it with a great group of friends!!! I'm glad you called on…"
mom'staxi commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Thanks. I pray every day to get to that place again, if not for me then for my kids. Kids need a home with a happy parent, so I continue to try with all my might to get life back in me. I want to get back on a…"
mom'staxi commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"(rest of my post) for each other is always there. We are all in this together going down a very difficult road at whatever speed and twists and turns that come with each of our journeys. Strength and love to all."
mom'staxi commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Whoknows,
First, I hope you got through yesterday okay - super big ((HUGS)) to you. That must have been really tough. I'm truly inspired by your attempts at positivity and happiness to want to pick up and move…"
mom'staxi commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Long-term illness
"Elle,
You totally summed up how I am feeling. I feel like my tank has been "drained" (happily) caring for my husband and I'm just wandering around with no idea where to refuel. I wouldn't have done anything…"
mom'staxi commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Personally, I would just take holding his hand right now. Not even speaking just the knowledge that he was still here would be SO good. I can't believe it has only been a little over a month my husband has been gone. It…"
mom'staxi commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Long-term illness
"Yeah...not sleeping much again. I have always had sleep issues with all that has gone on in our lives. I've been avoiding it the past few nights by spending time with my 13 year old at night. Nice to have the time…"
carolynne commented on mom'staxi's blog post Where is he??
"Same here. And Rodney very much believed in the existence of the spirit world. I've had little signs that might mean he's near...won't elaborate since it's YOUR blog, I'll save it for my own, lol...but for the most part I do…"
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- At 1:53pm on July 28, 2011,
Lisa (lost) Lamb said…
So sorry for your loss. I know this is the last place anyone wants to belong...but now that we do we can comfort each other along the way.So glad you found us
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- At 1:19am on July 28, 2011,
Dianne in Nevada said… 
So pleased you found us, Pam. Take a look around and join our conversations - in the Groups, Forums and chat room. You'll find wonderful support here.
- At 8:06pm on July 27, 2011,
Alive & Mortal said… - Welcome. I am happy that you are here. We really need each other. I hope you find the strength and peace that you deserve as you tell us your story and read ours.
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