"Dear, dear Donna
We all understand and know what you are going through it, because we all have gone or are going through it also. When WE say that we're "sorry for your loss," we mean it from our hearts because we REALLY…"
So many people say to you as a regular thing, "I am so sorry for your loss" but sadly, they don't have the foggiest idea about what that "loss" means to us until they experience it themselves and then it's…"
"I am truly so very sorry to hear about your husband's death. I hope that in joining our ranks, we can bring some measure of comfort, understanding and acceptance to you. We are all in the same ocean, just in different phases of…"
"This might seem a little calculated, but it just might work. Make a list of things you could use help in -- cleaning house, going shopping, making phone calls, sending thank you notes to folks who sent you flowers or nice thoughts, making a…"
"Especially with this pandemic thing going on, it gives us something "else" to think about moment to moment. Maybe you can try to think about how to help a neighbor, or how to spend the next 10 minutes doing something constructive…"
So glad you found us though it's a sad group to be part of. At least you are part of something that we hope will be a little comfort to you.My name is Phyllis and I lost my husband August 26, 2019. We had been married…"
I'm so glad you found us. We all have lost someone dear and I hope you will find some comfort in knowing that we can all say honestly, "Been there, Done that, We Understand." I have been writing letters to my husband,…"
"Oh Rebekah, I am so sorry to hear your story. Each of us has a "story" and each is as sad as the next. But I have been told that little by little we eventually begin to feel a little less lost and alone. Maybe these websites…"
"Hi,my name is Phyllis. I lost my husband to whom I was married 62 1/2 years. I have no brothers or sisters. I was the youngest of my parents families. All my friends have either moved far away or are dead. I live with…"
"Hi, I've been in other places on this site. I lost my husband to whom I was married 62 and a half years August 31 2019. I was hoping there is someone in the area near me. I live in Dania Beach FL 33004"
"So, so, so, so, so, sorry. We are all here, and we all reach out to help you however we can. Talk to us. Talk to your wife. All of those we love are out there someplace. I truly believe that somehow they can see us and hear…"
I am so sorry to hear of the death of your husband. I have been told that the going gets easier with time. My husband, Barry, died August 31, 2019 and it hasn't gotten any easier, but I am still trying to be hopeful. …"
"Hi, Daphne, I am so sorry for your loss. It's really sad that we must meet on a website where so many are unhappy spouses. I was married to my husband 62 and a half years. He died August 31st 2019, and it hasn't…"
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Welcome to Widville, phyllis. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.
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