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some days i don't think i can do this

Started this discussion. Last reply by Rainy (Misty) Jul 28. 3 Replies

my anniversary is in 2 days and i just can't bear it. me and smike would have been married for 43 years. it just hurts. i feel alone and lost. if i stay busy doing things i have to focus on, it's not…Continue

 

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smikette replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"i'm so sorry for your loss. i lost my husband on March 5 and a month later our cat had to be put to sleep: she had breast cancer. she was 15 years old. just re-opens those raw wounds. "
Jul 30
Rainy (Misty) replied to smikette's discussion some days i don't think i can do this
"((Hugs)) I can't add anything better than Dianne and Callie have added so I'll just say, you aren't alone.  "
Jul 28
Callie2 replied to smikette's discussion some days i don't think i can do this
"Sorry for your recent loss, smikette. I hope you can find some comfort here on this site amongst other widows and widowers who are experiencing the same. Many people here are at various stages of grief and others are past grief and here to offer…"
Jul 26
Dianne in Nevada replied to smikette's discussion some days i don't think i can do this
"You are so very early in your loss, smikette, please give yourself some grace and just feel what you feel. Tears are good. It's far worse to hold them all in because they will force their way out eventually.  And playing those games? …"
Jul 24
smikette replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion JULY Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days
"wednesday, the 25, would have been my 43rd anniversary. we didn't celebrate in big ways; we knew we loved each other. but, on our 35th anniversary we renewed our vows. friends and family at my daughter's house. it was casual and the theme…"
Jul 23
smikette replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"hi. i'm smikette and my husband was smike. he died March 5 of this year, 2018. he was just 2 months shy of his 63rd birthday. we'd known each other since the early 70s and had been a couple since 1974. got married the following year. i was…"
Jul 23
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some days i don't think i can do this

my anniversary is in 2 days and i just can't bear it. me and smike would have been married for 43 years. it just hurts. i feel alone and lost. if i stay busy doing things i have to focus on, it's not too bad. i enjoy things i guess, but when the movie is done, or i finish a game, or come home from an outing, no matter how much i enjoyed it, i feel meh. this is the worst time of day. i hate the night. it's too quiet and too long. i dread going to bed because i know that when i stop reading and…See More
Jul 23
judy left a comment for smikette
"Hi Smikette, Welcome to Widowed Village. I am very sorry for your loss, but happy that you found us. You will find caring, loving support and friendship here.   Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask…"
Jul 22

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At 10:11am on July 22, 2018, judy said…

Hi Smikette,

Welcome to Widowed Village. I am very sorry for your loss, but happy that you found us. You will find caring, loving support and friendship here.

 

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  Come in the chat room which is available 24/7 to you.  I look forward to getting to know you and support you through your journey.

Welcome to Widowed Village. I am very sorry for your loss, but happy that you found us. You will find caring, loving support and friendship here.

 

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  Come in the chat room which is available 24/7 to you.  I look forward to getting to know you and support you through your journey.

 
 
 

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