Hi Denise, Thank you for reaching out, Iam so sorry for your loss.
My husband was fighting cancer for four and a half years but the end was very sudden. I think the numbness is wearing off now and the reality is kicking in!
I am sorry for your loss, and your need to be here. I do think it is helpful hearing other people's stories. It is so new for you and to have been sudden must add to that pain. My husband was ill for a few years before he passed, but I still was not prepared for when it finally happened. I think I was numb for the first 6 or more months, just going on auto pilot. It just did not seem real, and it still does not now some days after over 2 years. I hope you may have family by your side to help you through it all. It is difficult making decisions and taking care of things on your own. I hope today may be one of your good days.
Solamente mio, welcome to Widowed Village. I am very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You will find caring support and friendship here.
Here is the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you will find meaningful conversations taking place. I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.