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David's Birthday Celebration.

Started this discussion. Last reply by North54 Dec 17, 2012. 3 Replies

After 53 days passed it was my husband's 47th birthday.  What was I going to do?  How was I…Continue


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Cinderella & Superman....a gift from me to you!

Posted on February 18, 2013 at 1:00pm 3 Comments

Cinderella & Superman….. 


Didn’t we all dream of being that beautiful, sacred princess?  The princess that escaped the harsh conditions that surrounded her.  We twirled in our dresses, filled our dreams with hope, and wanted our “Happily Ever After”. 

Even as our own wedding day was pending, we longed to regain the…


Can I still be married to my spouse in heaven?

Posted on February 1, 2013 at 7:30pm 5 Comments

I believe that these verses are among the most universally misunderstood of any in the New Testament. At first glance, they do appear to be saying that marriage does not…

Death Has No Power Over Love

Posted on January 4, 2013 at 9:50pm 3 Comments

Just two days ago, I found myself making choices on my headstone. Something I never imagined myself doing at only 38 years old, newly married, and a new mother. Who really thinks something like this could happen? Who could ever dream they would find themselves a widow so young?…


David's 47th birthday

Posted on December 20, 2012 at 10:25am 4 Comments


     After 53 days passed it was my husband's 47th birthday.  What was I going to do?  How was I going to handle it?  What would he want me to do?

     After much thought I decided that today for the first time I was NOT going to cry!  The children and I were going to…


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At 5:58pm on February 16, 2013, suebru (Sue) said…

Hi Twinkles, I'm sorry for your loss but glad you found your way to WV. I love your precious photos of your beautiful family. I noticed that your from NC. I am, too :-) I live close to Asheville, NC. Hugs to you :-)

At 5:20pm on December 21, 2012, MissHIm11 said…

Hi Twinkles. My dear friend Dianne contacted me to let me know you have joined WV. I am not on much anymore but wanted to reach out to you. I was widowed with a 14 month old and 6 months pregnant. March 12 will be two years for me, sometimes it seems like a lifetime ago and others it feels like he was here just yesterday. I have sent you a friend request. I would love to touch base soon. Hugs, Crystal 

At 10:06pm on December 19, 2012, Lori said…

Glad you are here so so sorry for you pain.  my lh 's voice can be found in my blog in you o lord i have found my peace look at my blog list and there is a link to a song he sang.  loved talking to you tonight take care

At 8:12am on December 16, 2012, LaurieR said…

Hi Twinkles.  I am so sorry for your loss.  By looking at your pictures you made the man deliriously happy for as long as you were together.  I cannot imagine anything better that you could have done for him.  I know it sucks that he died for you and your babies.  But you have to live on to tell your babies what a terrific man he was because they will have no memories of him except the ones you give them. People on this site have all lost their loves.  They understand what you are going through, when no one else (unless they lost their loves) can.  Come here to rant, scream and cry.  We all have.  If you have any question, I will try and answer them please send me an e-mail.  I will send you a friend request if you wish you can accept it.

At 4:33pm on December 14, 2012, Joyce said…

Welcome twinkles: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".

At 3:18pm on December 14, 2012, greenup said…
Hi Twinkles
At 12:54pm on December 14, 2012, kimkirt (KK) said…


Welcome to Widowed Village. I am sorry for the reason that brings you here but glad you have found us. This site and the wonderful people here have helped so many of us with fellowship along this journey.  I hope that you can find comfort and hope here like so many of us have among others who “get it.”  Have a look around and please feel free to contact me if I can be of any help. Hugs!


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Married only 6 months, with a newborn son 6 weeks old, and a 20 month old daughter. We shared 4 step children together, and to think I had finally found true happiness for the first time in my life. :( I woke to find that he had passed in his sleep with me and the babies laying beside him. How could he die at 46?!

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