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widowboymom34
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  • Matthews, IN
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Lost Girl replied to widowboymom34's discussion Being a new widow in the group Suddenly Widowed
"I was suddenly widowed on September 16, 15 weeks ago today. Cardiac arrest. I,too, constantly get the same saying” you are not alone, you have us’. All of your feelings and statements hit home. They have no idea how that makes us feel. I…"
Dec 30, 2019
BEAV replied to widowboymom34's discussion Being a new widow in the group Suddenly Widowed
"I'm so glad I found the Soaring Spirits community. I was widowed in August of this year and am somewhat struggling with the "we're here for you" comments by friends and family, well meaning as they are. I just want to say a quick…"
Dec 29, 2019
going.on.slowly replied to widowboymom34's discussion Being a new widow in the group Suddenly Widowed
"It is very early days!!  Your friends and family mean well but you must do what is right for your and your kids.  Just like any good mother does.  I lost my husband 3 years ago.  I found Widowed Village and through that I found…"
Nov 26, 2019
Melissa replied to widowboymom34's discussion Being a new widow in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Hi widowboymom. I'm so sorry for your loss, but you've come to the right place. Personally, I really dislike it when people tell me I'm not alone. "You have us!" Well, no, actually. I don't have you. I don't have…"
Nov 25, 2019
jlsrdh replied to widowboymom34's discussion Being a new widow in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Widowboymom34 I just want to say how sorry I am for your loss. I want to validate for you that I also agree that UNLESS YOU ARE IN THIS YOU DON’T GET THIS!!  My husband died 8/20/18 and like you last year meant nothing to me. The holidays…"
Nov 25, 2019
Blue Butterfly left a comment for widowboymom34
"Take your time. No on is judging.  The first Holiday is the hardest. The first time for us we just stayed home and we tried to talk through our feelings. I thought to bring it up first so the kids would realize I was thinking about Dad too."
Nov 25, 2019
widowboymom34 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"I am Lindsey, widowed August 16th 2019. Together for 12 years and Married for 7. We have 2 boys age 13 AND 9. I am from Indiana and work in the education field. This is by far the hardest thing my children or I have ever had to do. "
Nov 25, 2019
widowboymom34 replied to Judyrose's discussion Lost in the group Widowed in 2019
"My husband and I used to plow through the black Friday crowds and kick our Christmas shopping off that way. This year, I cant stand to be in public, I cant stand to bump into people I know, and I cant stand to pretend that Im happy. Im not happy, I…"
Nov 25, 2019
widowboymom34 added a discussion to the group Suddenly Widowed
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Being a new widow

I became a widow on August 16. I also being the lone ranger in raising our boys, age 9 and 13. I feel like everyone around me things I am a complete idiot and I feel completely alone. I know when my friends and family say "but you arent alone, we are all here" they mean well but they just dont get it. They have no idea why I dont care to buy Christmas presents, or why I obsessively clean my house now, why I can be okay one minute and not okay the next. Why I am just not interested in "moving…See More
Nov 25, 2019
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for widowboymom34
"Welcome to Widville, widowboymom34. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum…"
Nov 23, 2019
widowboymom34 replied to Melissa's discussion Holiday Plans in the group Widowed in 2019
"my husband passed away in August and left behind our boys ages 9 and 13 as well as myself. Yes, there are obviously other family members who are left behind (in-laws, siblings, parents) but for the boys and I, I feel like we have the biggest hole.…"
Nov 21, 2019

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At 8:34am on November 25, 2019, Blue Butterfly said…

Take your time. No on is judging.  The first Holiday is the hardest. The first time for us we just stayed home and we tried to talk through our feelings. I thought to bring it up first so the kids would realize I was thinking about Dad too.

At 1:34pm on November 23, 2019, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, widowboymom34. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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