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It’s been eight months today since I lost my soulmate. I still miss everything about him – his smile, his jokes, his hugs, and more… And still, somehow, I have managed to live on this planet eight months without him. I feel sad that I haven’t seen him in eight months, and believe it or not, a little relieved that I have managed to make it this far. I’m not sure how I’ve done it. His absence has left a huge hole in my life that is always with me, all the time, every day. But I still manage to keep going, despite that hole. And it is getting easier, at least most of the time. I don’t know how to explain it. I can’t shake the lingering absence, but maybe I am making room for it in my life.

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Comment by Susan on July 3, 2017 at 10:43am


   It's been around 7 1/2 months since Paul passed... Today my son and I will be going Grave Stone shopping.  We have been putting this off. But just can't do it anymore. Wish me luck to not fall apart. 


Comment by I_was_here (Jamie) on May 25, 2017 at 9:20pm

I could have said everything you did and been talking about Jake and I.  I think the part that's getting easier is my expectation of what the days might feel like.  Perhaps a tiny bit of acceptance is growing for both of us. *Peace*

Comment by underthefarmhouse on May 17, 2017 at 2:06am

I'm sorry for your pain yesterday, and always. Thanks for giving me some food for thought. "Making room for it in my life" is a really cool concept, painful but also cool.  Wishing you and all of us a little tranquility today.  

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