As some of you might know, I've been having one bad thing after another happen recently. Roof leaking, dishwasher breaking, me breaking stuff in the house, never ending home repairs, plus an ongoing health problem. So I was told recently, that my nephew and his girlfriend are expecting a child, this will add Great Uncle to my current title of Crazy Uncle. I am beyond thrilled that this is happening, except for one thing, my nephew's girlfriend and the new addition, will never know Arlene. Nobody on that side of the family even talks about her. This bothers me, ALOT! Arlene would have loved my nephew's girlfriend and the would have been thrilled to no end that she would be a great aunt. Something wonderful is happening, and I can't even be completly happy about it. This is always going to bother me.