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The other day I was taking a nap and I started dreaming I guess. The bedroom door opened and someone walked in. I knew instantly that it was Roger. I wasn't afraid. He put a blanket over me, just like he would have done. Then he laid down next to me. I could feel him right next to me. It was very real. Then I looked up and I could see his face as in a mirror. Only half his face could be seen.  I spoke to him  and said: Thank you for visiting me. I really needed it. He said "I know- It's ok, I love you".  I could touch his hair and his arms. He was here with me.  Then I said to him "I know how hard it is for you to come and visit me."  He just kept saying he loves me and its ok.  It was so real. I know he was here with me at that moment.   I wish that would happen every time I take a nap.  It was so nice to be with him again. Just reminded me how much I miss him.

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Comment by zztech on October 10, 2012 at 3:37pm

It has helped me. I was having a really bad week. I miss him so much. I was wondering if others get these visitations or if it is just a one time thing. I know we grab on to things and want more. Its just so hard to realize that he isn't ever coming back.

Comment by hendrixx2 on October 10, 2012 at 9:06am

Hi zztech,

Wow...such a powerful dream...so glad you were able to experience it...hope it helped with your healing...

Comment by AEDforever (Ali) on October 9, 2012 at 7:07pm

oh how wonderful. im still waiting for my visit.

Comment by judy on October 9, 2012 at 12:19pm

I had something similar but different -  because it was in the middle of the night - I was a little frightened - but when I realized it - he was gone - asked him to come back and he didn't.  I think he didn't want to frighten me.  But other signals have happened and I know that he is wish me.

My one friend was texting me and one of the texts (she was an old friend of Justin's) - she typed "You know you were my world.."  And my friend goes I typed it but that was Justin!   Made me really happy.....

Comment by tanya on October 8, 2012 at 10:31pm

(((((((love)))))))

Comment by Blue Snow on October 8, 2012 at 10:23pm

I have no doubt that Roger was there in spirit. I never believed in that kind of thing before but since my husband died in January I've had a couple of similar visits.

Comment by Joyce on October 8, 2012 at 9:35pm

zztech:  so happy for you, hugs!

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