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This was sent to me in an e-mail today and I thought it worth sharing with all of my WV friends and family.


Recently, I overheard a mother and daughter  in their last moments together at the airport. They had announced the departure. Standing near the security gate, they hugged, and the mother said, 'I love you, and I pray you enough.'

The daughter replied, 'Mom, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I pray you enough, too, Mom.'  

They kissed, and the daughter left. The mother walked over to the window where I was seated. Standing there, I could see she wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on her privacy, but she welcomed me in by asking, 'Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing you wouldn’t see them again in this life?

Yes, I have,' I replied. 'Forgive me for asking, but why is this a forever good-bye?'
'Well...I'm not as young as I once was and she lives so far away & has her own busy life. I have some challenges ahead, and the reality is - her next trip back will be for my funeral,' she said.

'When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, 'I pray you enough..' May I ask what that means?'

She began to smile. 'That's a prayer that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone.' She paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail, and she smiled even more. 'When we said, 'I pray you enough,' we wanted the other person to have a life filled with enough good things to sustain them..'  

Then, turning toward me, she shared the following as if she were reciting it from memory.  

I pray you enough sun to keep your attitude bright no matter how gray the day may appear.

I pray you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more.

I pray you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting.

I pray you enough pain so that even the smallest of joys in life may appear bigger.

I pray you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.  

I pray you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.

I pray you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye.

Then, she began to cry, and walked away.

They say, it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, but an entire life to forget them.


To all my friends and loved ones,


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Comment by telechick on October 18, 2012 at 3:24pm

lovely, thank you.

Comment by lovie on September 25, 2012 at 10:35pm

This is beautiful, Janet.  Thanks for sharing it and spreading love and healing through Widville!!

Comment by tanya on September 24, 2012 at 9:28pm

i pray all my wv friends enough. thanx for posting

Comment by kimkirt (KK) on September 24, 2012 at 10:36am


Comment by Joyce on September 24, 2012 at 10:25am

Oh I love this, thanks for sharing, I pray you enough also!

Comment by Susan B on September 24, 2012 at 5:47am

what a wonder sentiment, thank you for sharing this.

Comment by Hahase (Connie) on September 23, 2012 at 9:30pm

Oh Janet thank you so much for posting this.. it is wonderful.

Comment by Cristina on September 23, 2012 at 7:58pm

Lovely, Janet.  Thanks, you, too.

Comment by Lori on September 23, 2012 at 7:23pm

thank you for sharing this

Comment by North54 on September 23, 2012 at 4:39am

How beautiful and touching, I pray you enough also.

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