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Its midnight. Its quiet. Im in my laptop listening to sad music. Every music I heard, it reminds me of my late husband and posted it in my facebook page. I dont know why. Maybe I just want attention from my friends, but no one giving me attention. Im lonely..very lonely. My kids are sleeping. Im here in my living room alone crying for hours with my husband picture in my hands. Im sad, very sad. I have tears. It keeps flowing nonstop. I miss him so much. I really do. I wish he can come back. I wish he sees me crying. I wish he saw me. I wish I can see him. I have no one to talk too. Im alone. Im in pain. It hurts so bad. God help me. Take away my midnight tears. 

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Comment by Pinaywidow on March 2, 2015 at 6:15pm

Thank you Callie2. I appreaciate your advice. Its so difficult dealing this loneliness. Yes, i would like to try attending grief group. Ive been ignoring this because i wasnt ready to talk to other people. I know i will just cry. Its been six months now and I think Im ready to do counselling. Thanks for the add too. 

Comment by Callie2 on February 23, 2015 at 1:16pm
Grieving is so very hard and even with support, we need to feel these feelings in order for us to heal. I feel your pain, my dear, as I remember each and every step of the way. I am now six years out. I can tell you that in time, it becomes more bearable. I am sorry for your loss and for your children's loss. If you are able to attend a local support group, that may be helpful. It gives you a better understanding of the grief process and helps to untangle some of the emotions involved. I am sending you a friend request and if it helps, please feel free to message me. Wishing peace for you..

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