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I just heard the news that a dear friend of mine will be getting membership into our club here. I don't want her to have membership!!!
Debra married Karl 40 years ago. they have been through good times and bad, but always together. Karl was diagnosed with terminal cancer with somehere between 40 to 50 tumors and given 6 months. The best he can hope for is to live long enough to see their first grandchild born in February.
I know what she will be going through and I have promised to be there for "after". The rest of our friends can deal with the dying process, but I get the after. I don't want her here.