My wife's birthday will be coming up soon and I have no idea what to do. This will be the first since she passed away. I already planned to take the day off from work, knowing I'll be a mess. I know her side of the family will also be a mess.
I know I should do whatever I feel like, but I have no idea what that is or will be. I have her remains at home, so there isn't anyplace to go visit.
only1sue says
Posted on October 12, 2021 1
A bouquet of flowers next to her ashes, a picnic at one of her favourite beauty spots or a dinner of the food she loved. I always get out the photo albums but couldn’t have done that the first couple of years. Playing music you both enjoyed helps too. Some people give a donation to charity on a birthday or anniversary.I used to be on a help line and these are some of the suggestions we would have given.
KeithK says
Posted on October 15, 2021 0
Thank you for the suggestions.