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December 11, 2013 from 5:30pm to 6:30pm – Gurley Street Grill
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memorial basketball game
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Just Me, Myself and I
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Bonnie commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2013"I feel really bad that I brought this subject up. It seems to have caused pain to several people. I am sorry for that. It wasn't my intention. I was just sad that so many who have healthy husbands do not realize how precious that is or how soon…"
lonelyinaz commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2013"Guilt, I have some of it also. My husband's brain tumor prevented him from communicating where I could understand what he was trying to tell me. This lead to immense frustration on both of our parts, and with me yelling at him that…"
AZ_Cat commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2013"I had a wake-up call many years ago. The 1st time I stayed with my in-laws I use to see my Father-in-laws dishes just neatly left always in the sink. I thought wow he doesn't even help my mother-in-law. She always did the…"
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Started by Supa Dupa Fresh in Open area -- discuss anything you want. Start a topic? Sure!. Last reply by Stargazer82 yesterday. 1939 Replies 19 Likes
How long did it take before it really "hit" you that your spouse was gone?
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I would like to talk with others who are second guessing themselves and feeling guilty.
Started by BergenJC in Advice, please! (Ask-a-widow/er). Last reply by dazed Nov 26. 26 Replies 0 Likes
Married after 2 yrs and 2 months of grieving
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What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
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