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Soaring Spirits Regional Event in PRESCOTT, ARIZONA
December 11, 2013 from 5:30pm to 6:30pm – Gurley Street Grill
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6 years aago today
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Visitors - how many have we seen in the past 8 days? More relevant who are they?
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memorial basketball game
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Just Me, Myself and I
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mari commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2013"Regrets, I have so many. We had a very rocky marriage since we were both military and both very independent. Also the long deployments did not help matters. Sometimes he was gone 6 months at the time. He missed the birth of…"
Mary0624 (Maria) commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2013"I just read the posts about really, what are regrets. I heard a few months ago that if we don't have regrets in our lives, we haven't lived. I, too, wish I could have my husband back and not bitch at him about the petty…"
Morgana (aka janet) replied to Stargazer82's discussion Anyone else out there having to come to terms with their lost love's infidelities?"Stargazer, never feel guilty for posting something in the forum or writing a blog. It is good to be able to put your thoughts and feeling down and it is a healing one and does help. My husband wasn't a saint but neither am I.…"
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Started by Supa Dupa Fresh in Open area -- discuss anything you want. Start a topic? Sure!. Last reply by Stargazer82 yesterday. 1939 Replies 19 Likes
How long did it take before it really "hit" you that your spouse was gone?
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I would like to talk with others who are second guessing themselves and feeling guilty.
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Married after 2 yrs and 2 months of grieving
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What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
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