What does your heart look like today?

What has it been like navigating birthdays, anniversaries, holidays and big events?

What have you had to learn that your partner used to do? How does that feel?

In what ways do you connect with your person? (do you talk with them, write letters, etc.)

Who provides you emotional support? What does that look like when it feels good?

Do you sometimes feel like you died too? If so, say more about that feeling.